Wedding anniversary gifts by year: the complete list
By Cyrille Varin · Published on 27 October 2026 · 3 min read

Every wedding anniversary has its own name and its own gift theme: paper for the first year, silver for the 25th, gold for the 50th. The idea is that the materials grow stronger and more precious over the years, just like the marriage. Here is the full list, year by year, with ideas to celebrate the big milestones.
Wedding anniversary gifts by year
| Year | Traditional | Modern |
|---|---|---|
| 1 year | Paper | Clocks |
| 2 years | Cotton | China |
| 3 years | Leather | Crystal or glass |
| 4 years | Fruit or flowers (linen in the UK) | Appliances |
| 5 years | Wood | Silverware |
| 6 years | Iron or sugar | Wood |
| 7 years | Wool or copper | Desk sets |
| 8 years | Bronze | Linen or lace |
| 9 years | Pottery or willow | Leather |
| 10 years | Tin or aluminium | Diamond jewellery |
| 11 years | Steel | Fashion jewellery |
| 12 years | Silk or linen | Pearls |
| 13 years | Lace | Textiles |
| 14 years | Ivory (today, ivory-coloured gifts) | Gold jewellery |
| 15 years | Crystal | Watches |
| 20 years | China | Platinum |
| 25 years | Silver | Silver |
| 30 years | Pearl | Diamond |
| 35 years | Coral | Jade |
| 40 years | Ruby | Ruby |
| 45 years | Sapphire | Sapphire |
| 50 years | Gold | Gold |
| 55 years | Emerald | Emerald |
| 60 years | Diamond | Diamond |
| 65 years | Blue sapphire | Blue sapphire |
| 70 years | Platinum | Platinum |
In the UK, the first two are often swapped: cotton for the first anniversary and paper for the second. The milestone years never change: silver at 25, ruby at 40, gold at 50, diamond at 60.
The milestones worth celebrating
The first years
Dinner out, a weekend away, a gift that nods to the year's material: early anniversaries are mostly celebrated as a couple. A framed print for paper, a wooden keepsake at five, a tin gift at ten.
Silver and beyond
From the 25th anniversary, the celebration often becomes a family affair. Children organise a surprise, gather the couple's friends, put together a slideshow of old photos, or recreate the wedding photo in the same place.
Golden wedding anniversary
Fifty years of marriage is an event for the whole family. Many couples renew their vows and bring several generations together around a meal.
Organise a group gift with Pikki
For a silver or golden anniversary, children and grandchildren often club together for one big present: a trip, a piece of jewellery, a weekend away. An online gift list on Pikki makes it simple:
- everyone sees the ideas and reserves what they are giving, without an account;
- a cash fund link at the top of the list lets several people fund a big gift;
- several organisers can manage the list together, for example siblings;
- with secret mode, the couple sees nothing of the reservations if the list is shared with them.
Frequently asked questions
What are the most important anniversaries?
The 1st (paper or cotton), the 25th (silver), the 40th (ruby), the 50th (gold) and the 60th (diamond).
What is the difference between traditional and modern gifts?
The traditional list goes back to the early 20th century. The modern list was created later as a more practical alternative. Both are fine: choose whichever inspires you.
Do you have to give a gift in the year's material?
No, it is just a fun nod. A gift that hints at the material, even loosely, always raises a smile.
Sources
- Anniversary gifts by year, Historic Newspapers, accessed 25 October 2026
- Wedding anniversary, Wikipedia, accessed 25 October 2026

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Cyrille Varin · Founder of Pikki
Founder of Pikki and of the web agency 33C. A developer and data analyst with a background in digital marketing and SEO, he builds Pikki so that giving gifts to loved ones stays a pleasure: shared lists, Secret Santa draws and baby games.
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